Wednesday, April 22, 2009

HMmmMmmmm.....

I have no idea how I can actually sleep for more than 12 hours a day!! If there was a sleeping competition, I think I can win! I have to stop sleeping too much, it is BAD. I have to admit that I'm such a lazy person..I need to wake up!

Anyways, I'm suppose to be going through the undang-undang book but I'm here now (thanks to Nishant who reminded me about my blog and now i feel like blogging).

I need to discipline myself. D.I.S.C.I.P.L.I.N.E.

Okay, enough of me. Have you ever thought..

"Why is it so important or a must for people to have a boyfriend or girlfriend when they are still so young?"

I was watching The Biggest Looser on TV yesterday, and this 15 year old girl wanted to loose weight so that she can have a boyfriend. I was shocked!! Why is it so important? and if people only come to you after u have lost weight or become thin, shame on them. This means they only come to you for the wrong reasons, not because they like you for who you are.

And I will not deny that I used to be like that (boyfriend girlfriend stage). Now I just do not see the point in it. I see it differently now. I have learnt much from church, parents and a book called ' I Kissed Dating Goodbye' by Joshua Harris about relationships. It is not a light matter to be in a relationship with another person. I believe in our lifetime, we should wait for the right person and not jump into relationships just because we feel loved and appreciated. Why rush? Keeping our heart for that one special person is the right thing to do.

Using the time when we are single to improve on our weaknesses so that in future, when we are in a relationship, it will be for the better of our partner and the relationship. I believe strongly in that. And I also believe that God has the best in store for each and everyone of us.

I will wait for the BEST God has for me. What about you?

*p.s This is the book I strongly recommend, if you want to know more about relationships.






*p.s - Sorry if i have offended anyone in this post. This is just my opinion on this subject. :)

I kissed dating goodbye,

Yvonne Joan

4 comments:

  1. i love reading this book.. wait wait wait...
    be patient and trust God's timing...

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  2. You might find my blog of interest where I critique Josh Harris's book:

    www.ikdg.wordpress.com

    Unfortunately there are pros and cons to IKDG. Josh Harris doesn't share the problems that the system he promotes has caused over the years.

    Hope this helps.

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  3. I read the same book :S .. my pastor told me to read... he was like *poke poke* .. ahemm *clears throat* and i received it , -J-

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  4. eh i also have the book 'i kissed dating goodbye'. really nice. Yeah lets learn to guard our hearts and not succumb to peer pressure and temptations! *Hi 5!*

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